yo fv,
This is by Ryan M again in his adding a chip to PCM and cleaning the J3 Port, but similar to cleaning the pins
It is imperative that you clean these contacts, if there isn’t good contact in this area, you will have problems. Use a swab to wipe off the excess protective grease, and then scrape off the solder mask (usually green in color.) Super fine sandpaper, steal wool, scotchbrite pad, pencil erasers, and small screwdrivers will work. Make sure you clean both sides, there should be 15 contacts on each side. Wipe the connectors with an alcohol pad to remove any dirt after using the scotchbrite pad. Visually inspect the surface for any residue on the contacts, one good tip is to look at the connector with a light shining on it, any spot that does not reflect the light needs to be recleaned
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